LETS TALK PANTS

HELLO THERE.......GREAT DAY TO YOU!!!

I remember chatting with someone recently and mentioning that the only "obsession" i have other than underwear are children.

So, i found this awesome write up on sex education for children and i thought to share.

Its simple and straightforward.


Please do share.

The Underwear Rule

Help Keep Your Child Safe. 
Teach your child the Underwear Rule and help protect them from abuse. It's a simple way that parents can help keep children safe from sexual abuse – without using scary words or even mentioning sex.

TALK PANTS AND YOU'VE GOT IT COVERED

Explain the Underwear Rule to your child using PANTS

• Privates are private
• Always remember your body belongs to you
• No means no
• Talk about secrets that upset you
• Speak up, someone can help

PRIVATES ARE PRIVATE

Be clear with your child that the parts of their body covered by underwear are private.

Explain to your child that no one should ask to see or touch their private parts or ask them to look at or touch anyone else's.

Sometimes doctors, nurses or family members might have to. Explain that this is OK, but that those people should always explain why, and ask your child if it's OK first.

ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR BODY BELONGS TO YOU

Let your child know their body belongs to them, and no one else.

No one has the right to make them do anything that makes them feel uncomfortable. And if anyone tries, tell your child they have the right to say no.

Remind your child that they can always talk to you about anything which worries or upsets them.

NO MEANS NO

Make sure your child understands that they have the right to say "no" to unwanted touch – even to a family member or someone they know or love.

This shows that they're in control of their body and their feelings should be respected.

If a child feels confident to say no to their own family, they are more likely to say no to others.

TALK ABOUT SECRETS THAT UPSET YOU

Explain the differences between 'good' and 'bad' secrets.

Phrases like "it's our little secret" are an abuser's way of making a child feel worried, or scared to tell someone what is happening to them.

Good secrets can be things like surprise parties or presents for other people.

Bad secrets make you feel sad, worried or frightened.

Your child needs to feel able to speak up about secrets that worry them and confident that saying something won't get them into trouble.

Telling a secret will never hurt or worry anybody in your family or someone you know and love.

SPEAK UP, SOMEONE CAN HELP

Tell your child that if they ever feel sad, anxious or frightened they should talk to an adult they trust.

This doesn't have to be a family member. It can also be a teacher or a friend's parent.

Remind them that whatever the problem, it's not their fault and they will never get into trouble for speaking up.

Get the word out and Help keep your child safe.

AND SO FROM ME TO YOU .........ALWAYS REMEMBER NEVER T FORGET, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE..

Prov 22:6 (KJV)

Train up a child in the way he should grow and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

POST CULLED FROM www.nspcc.org.uk